So like I was talking about in an earlier post, I hate it when gainers just blatantly ignore you when you try to talk to them. As pathetic as it is, I lost sleep to it last night.. I went to bed at 1:30 or so and now I just gave up, five and a half hours later.
It wouldn't matter to me so much if he and I didn't have the same build and were virtually the same age (he's been saying he's fifteen since I was fifteen).. and even though he ignores me, I take it more personally than if it were anyone else because of those things in common and I try to see the good in people. The people I've talked to though who I asked about the situation just said to forget him cuz he's an ass if he doesn't want to talk to me.. or that he's missing out.. but.. I guess the point of this blog isn't mainly about gainers or anything, but.. is our world that isolated and pathetic that people are gonna be asses to you because they weigh more than you?
Has our species become *that* pathetic? Almost all of the gainers I've met are pretty decent people and some of them are some of my best friends.. but seriously.. life's too short for this bullshit.
And I'm sorry.. I just needed to vent. If you'd like, tell me how you'd deal with this situation if you were in my position.
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I've run into the same problem before. But mostly with guys who live in my area. Ugh. It sucks. If I try to make contact with them it makes me look like the annoying creep who won't leave people alone so I just try to move on.
ReplyDeleteIt's such shite though, eh? You try to be nice and they shove it in your face.
ReplyDeleteWell, they are probably like 80 year old perverts on the other end anyway. It's happened to me, so I'm not posting anything anymore. There are so many a$$holes out there, you can't really trust anyone. Too bad though, because you are really cute. :)
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ReplyDeleteI've been in that situation before, but in a way worse, I had a crush on this guy, and we were good friends and bout the same age, and all of a sudden he just started ignoring me, and then disappeared and wouldn't get on til like a year later, so I dunno if I creeped him out or if he just hated what I looked like, or hated me, so eh I dunno what to tell you :/
ReplyDeleteOur species as a whole is not that pathetic, just that particular example of the species is!
ReplyDeleteYou don't deserve that kind of treatment, and its just downright rude for him to do that.
Certainly not worth losing sleep over, just leave him to exist in his own little bubble and move on.